How Can I Save My Relationship?

Dear Allie,

I’m currently in a relationship with a guy and everything went well in the past few months until all of the sudden he decided that he didn’t want me living in his house anymore and was making some excuse that he wanted his own space. We currently have a 10 week old puppy that we share but it’s difficult for him because with the living situation I’m dealing with, they won’t allow pets and it sucks not being able to see my dog.

I’m having a big feeling that he might be cheating but I can’t convince him because I have no proof. He doesn’t answer my calls frequently when it comes to certain things. He always says he is at work but I think he might be lying to be about that and every time I ask if I can move back in with him, he keeps avoiding the question or doesn’t text me back about it. I have a feeling that he may be sneaking girls in his house behind my back and I just need answers from him. How can I save my relationship by communicating with him without arguing or him not responding back to me? Please help.


Unfortunately, it sounds like your boyfriend is trying to tell you that he’s moved on from this relationship. He’s already asked you to move out and is avoiding you. I know this is difficult to hear but don’t let this bring you down. Be strong! You don’t want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. You deserve to be with someone that will treat you right and appreciates you.


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