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How Men and Women Cover Up Cheating Differently

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Intuition is the first intangible warning sign of infidelity, but should people rely on their gut feelings alone? How can you know if you’re sensing infidelity in a relationship or simply overreacting?

Daniel Gomez is a private investigator and TV personality who has worked on the reality show Cheaters. He’s also written the book Play to Win that gives couples advice on how to deal with a cheating partner and end up winning the hand. There are a few telltale signs of cheating, he says, and they differ between men and women.

Red Flags that HE is Cheating

Gomez says that men are masters of disguise when it comes to cheating and go out of their way to hide affairs. Some signs that point to a cheating man include:

1. A dip in sex drive. When a man is interested sexually in another person, his desire for his spouse or significant other may wane.

2. Changes in appearance. A man who’s trying to impress a new love interest may spend more time at the gym, buy new clothes or spend more time worrying about his overall appearance.

3. Missing money. If there’s money in the household budget that is unaccounted for, it could point to cheating — particularly if it’s untraceable through credit or debit card records.

4. Tight grip on cell phone. A man who’s engaging in infidelity may suddenly add a lock passcode to his phone and keep it firmly in his possession. “I had one client whose husband slept with his cell phone locked, under his pillow,” recalls Gomez. This paranoia is a sure sign that he’s hiding something on his phone.

5. Car changes. If there’s unaccounted mileage, receipts or belongings in a man’s car, he could be cheating and keeping the evidence out of the house. Another red flag: a passenger seat moved to a different position.

Red Flags that SHE is Cheating

Because the ways that men and women cheat differ, guys often miss some of the signs of infidelity in their wives, fiances and girlfriends. Gomez says that when it comes to women, the ways they cover up cheating include:

1. Extra time with “girlfriends.” While men try to cover their tracks, women worry more about the back story of their cheating ways. A common sign that Gomez sees of cheating in women is when they suddenly spend a lot of extra time with girlfriends — or at least say that they are. “I’ve even seen people stopping at a girlfriend’s house at the end of a date and then posting pics of them together on Facebook,” says Gomez. “Maybe they see the friend for 10 minutes only, but they work hard to make it look like they’ve been with that person the whole time.”

2. Increase in exercise. While men tend to focus on overall appearance, women are pretty gym-centric when it comes to cheating. It could be a meet-up place for a new love interest or could simply reflect the woman’s desire to look her best for her new suitor.

3. New email accounts. Women work harder than men to cover their cheating tracks. Instead of simply hiding or deleting emails, women are more likely to create an entirely new account for email communications with a significant other and then not share that address with anyone else. “Women tend to spend more time planning out cheating, and aren’t as likely to encounter one-night stands,” says Gomez.

4. Girls nights out. Of course not every woman that goes out on the town with her girlfriends is prowling for men, but if these outings happen often — and suddenly increase — cheating could be the reason.

If you suspect your partner of cheating, Gomez says it’s best to collect the proof before any confrontation. “Without evidence, you can’t prove it. And you may cause him or her to be even more cautious about their cheating,” he warns. “Once the person knows you’re onto him or her, that makes it harder for you, and investigators like me, to find the proof.”

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Read the original article on Huffington Post.

Catch a Cheater: iPhone Recovery Tool Software

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By: Allie


Do you wonder if your spouse is cheating or has been unfaithful in the past?


With the ever-increasing availability and popularity of smartphones and social apps, infidelity is rampant and only becoming easier to hide.

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Peppard: Adultery eradicated by the show Cheaters?

By: Alan Peppard
11:20 am on June 26, 2013

Clark Gable III Cheaters HostWith the certitude of a North Korean dictator, Dallasite Bobby Goldstein, creator of the hidden-camera show Cheaters, declares infidelity eradicated.

“Most adultery and infidelity have stopped in the Metroplex,” he says. “Nobody has cheated in Highland Park in four years, now.”

Well…slow down. He is joking.

The end of adultery would mean the end of Bobby Goldstein’s status as a 1 percenter. The former Dallas attorney has made a tidy bundle with his syndicated gotcha show that spies on husbands and wives engaged in extra-marital intrigue.

Fair warning: Season 14 is in production in Dallas right now.

“Most all of the footage is shot here,” says Goldstein.

With a Barnum-like gift for promotion, Goldstein brought in a new host last year named Clark Gable III, grandson of the Gone With the Wind star.

And the young Gable is returning for Season 14.

“Clark is still our starting quarterback,” says Goldstein. “He’s the Roger Staubach of our team.”

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We All Agree: Cheating Is the Worst Thing Anyone Can Do

grass is greener- 6-3-13Author: Allie
June 3, 2013

According to a recent Gallup poll, cheating on your spouse is considered the most morally wrong thing a person can do. 91 percent of Americans agree that it is always morally wrong to have an affair. This is quite the change from 40 years ago, when similar studies reflected that only approximately half of Americans thought having an affair was always wrong.

Cheating is considered more morally wrong than human cloning, suicide, and polygamy. Even with a growing acceptance of divorce, pre-marital sex, and having children out of wedlock demonstrated by this same poll, Americans are shifting towards a contemporary attitude of being less accepting of adultery driven by a changed marriage ideal. Nowadays, there are so many individuals who care about who is allowed to get married and what constitutes a marriage. This marriage equality issue has become the defining civil rights cause of our era.

Political scientist John Sides notes in a recent detailed analysis of Americans’ changing attitudes towards adultery, “Americans, and especially better educated Americans, have become less accepting of adultery with the passage of time.” Society is far more accepting of ending an unhappy marriage than adultery.

The same Gallup poll also found a rising acceptance of many other non-traditional, consensual sexual relationships. It seems that the new ethical consensus is that you can do whatever you like as long as you’re not hurting anyone and you’re being open and honest.

Cheating has become our most despised sin. Dishonesty is a vice that all societies and religions can agree is immoral.

When we take marriage vows (I speak from a Christian standpoint), we pledge a lifetime of faithfulness to our partners, for better, for worse. Infidelity has always been taboo but the fact that it is viewed even more immoral today than in the past, shows you how our society’s view of marriage is being completely redefined. People are waiting longer and longer to get married; waiting until they have sowed all of their proverbial oats and are more established in life to start a union- a lifetime partnership with someone. Although, if you believe this will inoculate you from infidelity, evidence suggests you might be a little on the naïve side.

If you want to keep your marriage safe from infidelity, my best advice is that you must consistently and continuously make the effort to spend quality time with your spouse. If you don’t enjoy spending time with your spouse or don’t share many common interests, I strongly suggest you find something fun for you both to do together because at the end of the day, if you two don’t enjoy spending time together and aren’t willing to put in the effort to spend time together, what are you two doing together?

Like Big Sean raps in Justin Bieber’s song, the grass is greener where you water it. Make sure you water your own grass, people! It’s important!


Where Do Cheating Spouses Dine With Their Lovers?

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Where do cheaters go when they want to eat a meal with their mistresses?

According to a new survey conducted by the adulterous dating website, the number one place secret lovers go is Morton’s Steakhouse.

The dating website, for married people looking to cheat, surveyed 42,890 of its members in major American cities and found that their adultery committing members normally take their secret lovers to popular chain restaurants that are at least 20 miles away from their home.

According to Ashley Madison founder and CEO Noel Biderman chain restaurants are the most popular for cheating spouses because they are less conspicuous.

“Chain restaurants are larger and less conspicuous,” he stated in a press release. “Steak houses are always a popular affair destination since they’re not only dimly lit but also commonly found in business districts, close to hotels where the these type of dates typically end.”

Top 10 Restaurants in America Where Cheaters Take Their Secret Lovers:

10. Fleming’s
9. Red Lobster
8. Outback Steakhouse
7. Chili’s
6. Del Frisco’s
5. The Cheesecake Factory
4. P.F. Chang’s
3. Houston’s
2. Ruth’s Chris Steak House
1. Morton’s The Steakhouse

Have you ever found a receipt in your man’s or woman’s pockets from one of these places and you weren’t one of the parties involved? This might be a red flag!


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