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Dear Allie,

I am a huge fan of the Cheaters show.

I am a young 26-year-old mother of 5 girls. I have been married once before and shortly divorced. Now I am remarried to someone that I love more than life itself.

We have been together for 4 years and married since May 9th, 2015, so only married for short-term. But during the last 6 months, he hasn’t been the same. We have actually gotten into an argument and he told me he wanted a divorce. We have resolved that issue and now I’m a little worried.

He isn’t hardly intimate with me anymore. Created a Twitter account, 6 Facebook Accounts, Snap Chat, a secondary email account, and when I found out about it, I asked him about them and he refused to share any account info with me and said it was none of my business. RED FLAG IMMEDIATELY!

He deletes his emails, computer history, and everything else before he gets home from work.

I don’t want to live the past life again of having to worry about my husband being with another woman. So my question to you is: Would you push the issue of asking if he is cheating or what should I do? I’m at a loss for words. Every time I have asked him before if he was cheating or even thinking of it, he gets so furious and it starts an argument. So I don’t know what to do anymore. Can you please help?!?!

-Mrs. Marriage Problems

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Dear Mrs. Marriage Problems,

The good news is that there is a possibility that he is not cheating on you.

But the bad news is that his behavior strongly suggests he is keeping secrets from you and these secrets could very possibly be related to an affair he may be having. However, you have the power to find out the truth about your spouse’s faithfulness (or lack thereof).

The quick and easy way to uncover the hidden truth is to conduct your own investigation using surveillance tools from our online store Cheaters Spy Shop (Visit Store Here).

There is Phone and PC Software that could answer all of your questions as to why he has so many new social media accounts plus an additional email account that you aren’t allowed to view. Why does he need to clear his emails, computer history and everything else off of his computer EVERY DAY before he gets home from work? If things can’t be said (or typed) in front of your wife, they shouldn’t be said at all, period the end. I cannot understand why a man (or woman) would behave this way, unless he has something to hide from you.

Guilty people will get mad when questioned about their lies- it’s a natural defense mechanism. Knowing that, you can continue to ask him (for who knows how long?) because he might eventually crack just to get you to stop questioning him, or alternatively, you can try to find out the truth for yourself first and then decide what you want to do once you have your evidence compiled and processed.

If you’re proven wrong, you can finally calm your nerves and don’t have anything to worry about. But if you’re right, you have the concrete evidence you need in order to confront him about his lies because a liar is going to lie, especially when confronted. But hard evidence doesn’t lie- remember that.

Although I hope you don’t find anything, chances are your gut/ inner instinct is right, which is why you’re having these suspicions and have already compiled some evidence of your own. Although finding out the truth about a cheating spouse can be very hard to stomach initially, there are many marriages that are able to fully recover after infidelity. But the road to recovery is a process that takes time and in order to start down the recovery path, the truth has to be out in the open first. I wish you all the best.

XO, Allie

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